- Getting sick with something that needs to be taken care of on a schedule - like diabetes or just a 4 times/day antibiotic or something. Doing things on my schedule means it's not dh's schedule and I don't want to deal with his attitude about being inconvenienced because I can't do xyz at 7pm because I have to take care of whatever for myself. Even if it means just a 5 minute wait for him, it's still there.
- Having to take medical tests where I can't drive afterward, or be left alone for 24 hrs afterwards because of the conscious sedation drugs - How do I get home if dh can't drive? Who do I stay with, or who stays with me, after he's gone?
- Bugs in the house - dh gets rid of them now, but later? I'll need a good exterminator...
- Dealing with all of dh's saved up pack-rat stuff, we don't need a million boxes or a shed or whatever to store this stuff. We need to THROW IT OUT. What's left, what's worth keeping, we'll have enough space to store (might need a few shelves or something, but the space is here)
- Living alone. I've never done that.
- Planning a vacation, not the planning so much as the traveling to/from whereever.
- Somedays I'm looking forward to being alone.
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